JeremyYour sexuality is your own very oepsrnal and very unique to each of us. If what you need in a sexual relationship is not compatible with the sexual desire of a partner, there are two choices you can move on, which is the easiest, or you can try to work it out which can take a long time. The difference is in the first case, you are dealing with someone who views you someone to satisfy his own physical needs, and in the second case, you are dealing with a unique human being who realizes you are a unique human being. A lot of gay connections fail because of seeming sexual incompatability right out of the gate. I always found this rather sad it is surprising what you can work out if the other person is willing to put forth the effort because they care about you.