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I’ve given this subject a lot of serious thought, and it doesn’t happen very often, but here I have to differ with the “Pro” on the topic of deep throating. Nina Hartley too, who’s expertise I sincerely respect, said, “You don’t have to deep throat to give a good blow job,” but to that I simply have to ask, Nina where’s your dick? I don’t think she knows any more how a man feels when his lover slides his penis deep into her throat than I do when I lick my lover’s clit. Ladies, you don’t have to deep throat your lover but once you have, or someone else has, there’s only one other thing I can think of that will top it.

I know it’s not easy. In my lifetime I’ve only known a couple of women who were capable of deep throating me and I married the last one fearing that they were an extinct species. But I have to believe that it is an aquireable skill for some, if not most women. One of my former lovers started out with me as a virgin and after seeing Linda Lovelace’s performance she decided that she wanted to learn to do it. Admittedly there was some gagging and a lot of patience, on her part, but she became as good a fellatrix as any I’ve known.

If you’re really serious about adding this to your repertoire I recommend you look back at the pioneering ladies who started it: Linda Lovelace, Little Oral Annie, Marilyn Chambers, among others. Watch them and study their techniques. In, “The Little Oral Annie Collection,” I have, Ron Jeremy presented an introduction and explained how she effortlessly swallowed ****s. We wouldn’t likely follow it today because most of us are justly leery of Vaseline Petroleum Jelly, but there is help. There are products on the market designed to desensitize your gag reflex and stimulate your salivary glands; both necessary for successful deep throating. I look at these sprays like necessary training wheels on a bike that allow you stay up and ride safely, or in this case get down.
Oral sex, particularly what a woman can do to a man, has to be one of the most misunderstood subjects I can think of. When you can get him deep into your throat to where you lips are in his pubes and you can nibble on the base of his **** you have done something very few, if any other women have.

And this isn’t necessarily the end. When you can deep throat him comfortably and confidently while you gently massage his balls and the inside of his thighs, and he thinks there is nothing more that heaven will allow, you can top that.
 
You can gently slip a lubricated gloved finger into his ass and give him what I like to call a “finger wave” or “the fickle finger of fate.” You can massage his prostate internally while you finish sucking him off and when he cums you won’t have to ask if he liked it.

The first sex toy that I owned wasn't even a sex toy , instead it was a hand held smsaager from the local dollar store that I purchased when I was 15 and extremely curious. After using it to learn about my body, what I liked & disliked, what orgasms felt like and the different ones I could have, not to mention the feeling of liberation and power that little gem gave me I have to now admit, it was probably the best $1 I've ever spent! I'm sure the Pocket Rockets being given away for Sex Toy Day will help tonnes of people have experiences that shape their view of sexuality and self exploration in a very positive light!